Clockwise from top left: Mackensey Alexander Photography, Christina Watkins Photography, Christopher Dumas Photography, Evin Photography, Christa Elyce Photography

Photo: Liz and Ryan 

The maid of honor and often bridesmaids share the responsibility of hosting the bridal shower, according to tradition. Surprisingly though, it’s common for a bride to have more than one bridal shower. In that case, the host(s) should make sure that there is no duplication of guests on each list. The guest list should be filled with the bride’s nearest and dearest family and friends whereas the menu should be filled with the sweetest of treats. (Tip: Every guest that is invited to the bridal shower should already be on the wedding guest list.)  Invitations, including registry information, should be sent out six weeks to one month in advance. One of guests’ favorite rituals at a bridal shower is making a bouquet out of ribbons and bows from the opened gifts so the bride can use it at the rehearsal.  However, it’s perfectly acceptable to start your own ritual.

What’s your favorite ritual at a bridal shower? Let us know in the comments below!

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Clockwise from top left: Dress by Anna Elyse Bridesmaids, photo by Robert Mitra; dress by Encore by Watters, photo by Dan Lecca; dress by Alfred Angelo, photo by Dan Lecca; dress by Theia, photo by Dan Lecca

Looking for something to wear to your bridal shower? We recommend going for a dress that’s fresh, feminine, and demure – nothing your Grandma Sylvia wouldn’t approve of! You’ll be doing a lot of sitting, standing, and walking around, so make sure your dress (and your shoes) are comfy! You can certainly wear white, but if you’d prefer to steer clear of the hue before your wedding day, try a pastel or lighter springtime shade. Check out some of our favorite styles above.

What are you wearing to your bridal shower? Let us know in the comments!

While having a bridal shower is totally optional, it is a fun way to celebrate with your nearest and dearest before the wedding. Usually, the bridal shower is hosted by the maid of honor and bridal party, but it’s also fine for family members, the groom’s mom’s friends, or other important people in your life to throw you a shower. And though most of the time the bride does not play a role in planning the shower, we thought it would be a good idea to share the most important elements of this celebration.

The Venue
Bridal showers can take place in a variety of locations. A restaurant or hotel can be convenient – food and decor all in one place – but we’ve also seen showers take place at someone’s home, a park, or even something super-creative like an art gallery.

Photo by Christina Watkins Photography

When it comes to planning a bridal shower, hosts should plan according to the bride’s interest, whether that may be her favorite color, hobby or place, but remember to keep in mind some of these decor ideas:

1. Fantastic Florals 

Photos: Holly Heider Chapple Flowers, Ltd. and WASIO Photography

2. Irresistible Sweets 

Photos: WASIO Photography and Christa Elyce Photography

3. A Theatrical Theme

Photos: Toast Event Planning & Design 

For more bridal shower decor inspiration, check out our gallery full of lovely bridal showers.